Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Deaths Put Focus on Pastor's Advocacy of Spanking

My dad used to laugh about how he was going to "tear your little butt up," but he wasn't joking around. My dad would whip me on the back of the legs with the belt. I've forgotten what I did wrong. Maybe I forgot to do chores, or I fibbed about something to try to stay out of trouble. Little good that did. And I wasn't the only kid in my neighborhood to get the belt, either. Did it make us better kids? I don't know. I was just scared of my dad. And I don't know if that has a peripheral effect of increasing respect for authority, although that seems to be the premise of advocacy for old-fashion spanking.

In any case, here's this at New York Times, "Preaching Virtue of Spanking, Even as Deaths Fuel Debate":
PLEASANTVILLE, Tenn. — After services at the Church at Cane Creek on a recent Sunday, a few dozen families held a potluck picnic and giggling children played pin the tail on the donkey.

The white-bearded preacher, Michael Pearl, who delivered his sermon in stained work pants, and his wife, Debi, mixed warmly with the families drawn to their evangelical ministry, including some of their own grandchildren.

The pastoral mood in the hills of Tennessee offered a stark contrast to the storm raging around the country over the Pearls’ teachings on child discipline, which advocate systematic use of “the rod” to teach toddlers to submit to authority. The methods, seen as common sense by some grateful parents and as horrific by others, are modeled, Mr. Pearl is fond of saying, on “the same principles the Amish use to train their stubborn mules.”

Debate over the Pearls’ teachings, first seen on Christian Web sites, gained new intensity after the death of a third child, all allegedly at the hands of parents who kept the Pearls’ book, “To Train Up a Child,” in their homes. On Sept. 29, the parents were charged with homicide by abuse.

More than 670,000 copies of the Pearls’ self-published book are in circulation, and it is especially popular among Christian home-schoolers, who praise it in their magazines and on their Web sites. The Pearls provide instructions on using a switch from as early as six months to discourage misbehavior and describe how to make use of implements for hitting on the arms, legs or back, including a quarter-inch flexible plumbing line that, Mr. Pearl notes, “can be rolled up and carried in your pocket.”

The furor in part reflects societal disagreements over corporal punishment, which conservative Christians say is called for in the Bible and which many Americans consider reasonable up to a point, even as many parents and pediatricians reject it. The issue flared recently when a video was posted online of a Texas judge whipping his daughter.
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1 comments:

lady di said...

Spanking was the punishment of my days growing up. I do believe in punishment and that their is a big difference between spanking and beating! You did know that your parents were paying attention to your actions back then thought and you were held accountable.