I'm feeling better this year, less economic anxiety. That's probably odd, since, things financially are going to come to a head in my home this year. I'm up for refinance, but a home that sold across the street, virtually the exact same model (brand new development in 2005), sold for more than $100,000 dollars less than the market price at time of purchase. It's a lousy market, and unless folks are in for the long haul (stable, fixed-rate mortgages), people are losing money, selling short, or walking away. My wife and I have a lousy loan. We put down $35,000 on our house when we bought it (for close to $600,000). We put at least another $15,000 into it for furnishings, window coverings, new furniture, etc. After a year, we had over $150,000 in "equity" at going market rates. But then the crash came. Our loan is adjustable, and when the mortgage resets it'll be unaffordable at our current income levels. Like many folks, our fortunes were riding on market trends, and since both my wife and I are gainfully employed at good income, we've been less worried than many. Still, I'm not looking forward to the tough decisions. I'll be talking to the lender. Whatever happens with the house, everything will be market based. I oppose mortgage bailouts, and if my lender plays hardball, well, I signed on the line and I'll live with the outcome and learn from it -- starting over somewhere else if necessary.
That's all I feel like sharing about things on the financial side. It could be a rough year. The main thing for me, if we have to move, is to keep my kids enrolled in this school district. Both boys are doing well. My oldest will be 14 this month, and he's a headstrong teenager showing his independence. My youngest is 8 and doing really well in school after a couple of slower years dealing with reading impediments. We've got some special programs through his campus, and the principal, teachers, and support staff have been phenomenal. Irvine public schools are wonderful that way, so maintaining stability on that front will be a priority (my parents divorced when I was in 9th grade, and I basically missed my freshman year of high school from the emotional disruption and relocations ... I don't want my sons to go through it like I did).
The other big thing for me this year will be physical fitness (hence, the "Rocky" trailer above ... watched the movie again today, as part of Encore's "Rocky" marathon ... I should write another post on that ... maybe tomorrow). I've always been healthy and fit, although I've gained weight over the last two years and I need to lose about 20 pounds. My doctor even said so, for the first time in my life. So, I'll be getting out more. I've no excuses. I like the outdoors, and I was a skateboarder in my teens, and a bodybuilder and a cyclist in my twenties and thirties. A runner too, but I don't know if my knees are going to hold out. Hiking's cool (what've I've done in my forties), and that's probably the first thing I'll be getting back into. We also have a personal stepclimber in the downstairs office (Stairmaster 4000PT, popular at membership gyms in the 1990s), although I like to get out, so we'll see how much I use it. The main constraint will be setting aside time outside of work and caring for my boys. With the wife working full-time, exercise has to be scheduled in just like everything else. I will be writing and blogging about this, with photos of hikes - perhaps as early as next week, when my kids start back to school (I'll have another week off before my semester begins).
Other than that, as I noted in my 1 million hits milestone entry, blogging will continue. Although I'm not sure on the pace. I'm thinking about writing a book. Not sure how I'll approach it, but it's going to deal with my ideological transformation over the last 6 years, and perhaps a lot about blogging and politics. We'll see, but it's the next step in my personal development, and if I can get that done in a year or two, my blogging creds will be strengthened. Perhaps I'll even make more money at this stuff some day.
Okay, that's good for now. Thanks to all of my regular readers, many of whom I don't communicate with. Feel free to comment here, or try to comment at upcoming threads.
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Best of luck, Don.
Oh, everything's going to be fine, Paul. Thanks so much for commenting!
Great post, Donald. Whether it's the Cali housing collapse or weight gain, it sounds like the challenges you face aren't unusual.
On the housing front, your predicament is tough but not fatal. In most states, including my own, borrowers face deficiency exposure in such situations. Generally, Cali borrowers do not. While this is of little solace on the loss of good money plowed into a home, being upside-down is worse in other places. I would think that the lack of deficiency exposure gives a CA borrower some refinancing leverage, as the lender may become the owner if the borrower exits.
Weight gain is universal, and gets worse with age as our metabolism slows. Meanwhile food is more abundant and better tasting. I'm mid 50s, exercise regularly, ran a half marathon in the fall- and my waistline has ballooned this holiday season. Like many things in life, it's a constant struggle. Argh.
The good news is that you are employed, productive and happy. And best of all, you don't make excuses. Thanks for the blog and best wishes for 2010.
I wish the best to you and your family, Donald.
Kids are resilient and no matter what you face in the future, you and your wife's example and a loving home will be what sustains them - it really is what matters the most. I do hope that school-wise you can swing staying in the school district.
Rocky's really great, Philippe! Thanks man!
"I'm mid 50s, exercise regularly, ran a half marathon in the fall- and my waistline has ballooned this holiday season."
A half marathon, Kreiz! You're killing me! LOL!
That really is the most important thing, Grizzly Mama. I want to look out for my kids. Love the house, but could leave it if necessary. But the school situation's been real good lately.
Thanks for your readership.
California housing: Walk away if it is upside down; the bank would treat you as a number, so ethically, I believe it is viable. My ex-wife and her husband did just that here in Phoenix. The family makes a house a home anyway, wherever you go.
I sympathize with your son’s need for special attention; great resources available now. I had the same problem but, in the 1950s one was unfairly labeled as slow.
In retiring in 2007 I said good-bye to a six-figure income- without California’s great public school retirement benefits to which you can look forward. We have had to adjust by budgeting, but have never been happier.
Here’s some good news for your young athletic frame: You’ll get it back: I have kept my washboard stomach into my 60s, by eating well (fish), few sweets, diminishing alcohol, regular exercise and shuffling around the track.
Your book will be a treasure for the country, and something to inspire your boys.
"I have kept my washboard stomach into my 60s, by eating well (fish), few sweets, diminishing alcohol, regular exercise and shuffling around the track."
You'll be an inspiration for me, Rusty! Thanks!!
Happy 2010! I'm sure everything will be fine, and I know we're all looking forward to read your future book!
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